5 Types of Men Women Find Attractive
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February 05, 2025
Online forums in social media and popular culture have pictured a vision of romanticized masculinity that every man needs to possess to find true love. Nowadays, persuading someone to say yes can be a challenge as you have to strive to be that ideal man everyone wants, being muscular, good-looking, and rich. Honestly, if you already possess these attributes, you won't need more time to read blogs or articles on attracting more people that would fit you.
The truth about having a successful dating experience is that being a little different is not about transforming yourself into a different individual. But instead, you need to be your own best version, and becoming that person is workable.
For instance, in a place with 20 guys where most want to be the same guy, the opposite man is most likely going to be successful in dating apps. It is because people will find that person extraordinary and confident will be noticed immediately.
For most men, it is natural to search for ways on how to be that sophisticated type and attractive guy to find a perfect match, but it is time to change the way you think about this concept. Instead, the most practical thing to do is find out your date-able version and work on being that guy.
To give you an idea, below are the five types of men that most women find attractive and those who don't have a hard time getting dates. Of course, it is common to screw up on a date, but these men possess enticing attributes that make people go out with them, and they can make people miss their flaws.
1. Fun Guys
You might have already heard this advice in dating forums that the perfect way to touch a person's heart is through laughter or making them laugh. This advice is quite accurate, if you have a good sense of humor, people might think that you are fun to be with and that would lead to attraction.
But sometimes men think that flirting should start with a joke and that is not attractive. What's cool is being that funny guy. And it can be in different forms such as, a guy who is game on anything, planning parties, or a guy who can immediately befriend most in the room at a party.
2. Wise Guys
Being the ‘wise guy’ has different forms, that is why it is necessary to know what it means first. It is not about mafia-style or the biblical version of wise men. It is about being genuinely wise guys or guys with wisdom. This attribute might seem to be complicated, but it’s not. It only means that you appreciate the world; you have learned and seen things. Being mature is one way to describe it, where you know that listening is more important than speaking and you don’t make impulsive decisions.
Moreover, they say having wisdom is related to age. Well, not really; it depends on how you handle things in life.
3. Generous Guys
They say rich guys are the sexy ones, are they? The belief of most people that wealthy guys are a dream or good catch is a mistaken idea of what is desirable in wealthy guys.
Money should not be the basis. Rich Guys are desirable because they are successful. Being generous is not all about how much money you have in a bank, it means being generous in many forms. It is better to spend time with a generous guy without a lot of wealth than a selfish guy with millions.
Generous guys are considered dream dates because they are kind, thoughtful, and care about others' feelings.
4. Successful Guys
Being successful is also attractive to most people. It is cool to think that you can do things that others can’t do, and when you are capable of blowing their minds and making their jaw drop, and just stop and stare at you. Of course, being good at anything you do does not guarantee that you can get a perfect date, but there’s a good chance you’ll have one.
5. Healthy Guys
At present, health is most peoples’ number one priority, and there are different ways to be healthy. Most guys depict this category by having muscles or being that macho man, but the reality is having a muscled and well-toned body is attractive to few people.
Being attractive is knowing how to take care of yourself. For sure having muscles but can also mean having good cardio, a healthy diet, and without any substance addiction. Another is, knowing how to take care of your emotional sense. It is a fact that most men find this aspect challenging. Talking and dealing with emotions is not the cup of tea of most men as they are not taught how to deeply process emotions when growing up.
However, if you can conquer your emotional fears, have been to therapy sessions, and are comfortable showing your genuine emotions, you are a good catch. Besides, it is the 21st century; cavemen are out of date.
Conclusion
Many guys still struggle with finding an actual date. Maybe the mentioned qualities can help you become successful in finding a date. But the ideal way to do this is to work on finding the best version of yourself, and everything will follow.
